Tuesday, August 31, 2010

Day 19...

Today was the most difficult day to get through. I spent a lot of time reflecting on the last three weeks and trying to sum up my experience. To be quite honest there is no other way to discribe it then, I do not want to leave.

Peruvians are so much more emotional and so deep. Im not sure what it is, but we sure felt it. So many of the people I met have an appreciation for the land, for eachother, for thier culture. And you could feel their passion. I felt I got something here that I really lack at home. A deeper connection with people. Some believe that you do not need any verbal communication to connect and feel people and know people. There is something to be said about it... In Peru, with such a language barrier, it was acheived. Somehow without any verbal communication I managed to form a bond unlike any I have at home, where we speak the same language. I think that is why is was so easy to fall in love with each and every one of them. In such a short time such a bond was created with many people. Shay said that on all of her other trips she didn't cry when she said goodbye to her tour guides. But here, emotions were a big part of the goodbyes. While Shay and I talked over breakfast she said something I really liked. The friendships I made here is worth more then any stone I layed. And its true. People will never understand the impact of the experience until they experience it themselves. Its never just about the communities and people that we physically help here. Its also a small step to something bigger that each of us will take home with us.

I said before that it felt like home. Never once did I feel any sense of culture shock. I have learned on my travels that no matter where you go you will always find a piece of home. No matter what country, however far away, whatever culture, you will always find that people are people, just living their lives just as we do. They have families, they play with their children, the eat dinner, enjoy a good time, good music, and a glass of beer. They go to work, school, university out to the bar... Its important to look for these things and feel the sense of being able to relate. Instead of picking apart whats different. Always look for the kindness, remember that just because you are told to watch your bags, doesn't mean that everyone is going to steal them, and also remember that people will steal at home too. And for every person who wanted to pickpocket us, 5 people told us to watch out for them. Think about that. See the beauty in people no matter where you go, including home.

From the farmlands, to the mountains, from the ruins, to the historic streets, the elite parties and the coast, Peru is so diverse and it was a pleasure getting a taste of every little part. I will never ever forget my friends who made my time there so worth while, Yessie, Cristian, Nancy, Hugo, Augusto, Pursy, Rebelino, Gabriel, and Ricardo... each of you have a special place in my heart. As well as each and everyone of the group members, Shay, Nicole, Jamie, Karin, Jeff, Jarret, Drew, Laura, Tania, Jessica, Mel, and Lori. Will miss you all. And thank you for an unforgetable experience.

3 comments:

Unknown said...

This brought tears to my eyes. I think I know exactly what you were talking about. It's about FEELING who the people really are. I'm so glad your heart opened up to this level. Awesome! The part about the ocean also tore at my heart. Maybe one day.......Good job Amber. You made a difference in the lives of many people. Keep up the growing, reach for the top!!!!!

Hope said...

beautifully said Amber! Melted my heart at not only the fact that you wrote enough to bring us with you but the fact that you also included us in your valuable learning experience. We shared your joy, excitement, love, adventure and now your tears. You went there being the student and now you are the teacher! Proud of you! Love you! and...a big, thank you!

Anna said...

I agree - I think humans have a universal culture, but because most people here can't see past their noses, they can't see it.